What is most inspiring about your identity is that you are a family man. Love that dream girl faithfully, and raise those children lovingly. In so doing, you will have provided the best and most enduring achievement of all that is possible in this life.

All this sound and fluff in public persona development is but a momentary flash in the pan. The truly precious element — the gold — is faithful love and care to those whose well-being have been placed into your responsibility.